When there is trouble with your car, you call AAA.
When there is trouble with your relationship, you need your bag of why's!
You need a bag full of why's when you are pursuing a dream--whether that be for your career, personal life, or otherwise.
No, not just one, but many! Yes, you will need backups and you will need to keep adding to your why's each day. If you're really into something for the long-haul, wouldn't you want to continuously be working to get better?
Sometimes some of the why's just fade and things change, so you need backups to keep you going.
Why do you want to lose weight?
Why do you want this job?
Why do you want this marriage?
Why do you want this friendship?
All of your key relationships will have ups and downs and bumps in the road. Like Mark Messier said about Game 6...I guarantee it!
When you hit a snag, you will need a reason for when you ask yourself, "Why am I in this?" More importantly, do you have a good answer for, "Why should I want this to work?" and "Do I want to keep going?"
Think about your most important relationships and why you even got into the relationship in the first place. Why did you date your husband or wife? Why did you take the job you have?
Your bag of why's is what will pull you through the tough times.